Comments on: If you used to read my old blog, this post is for you. http://www.thetrephine.com/2009/10/04/if-you-used-to-read-my-old-blog-this-post-is-for-you/ I need this blog like a hole in my head. Thu, 09 Sep 2010 17:51:50 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Issa http://www.thetrephine.com/2009/10/04/if-you-used-to-read-my-old-blog-this-post-is-for-you/comment-page-1/#comment-350 Issa Tue, 19 Jan 2010 21:01:04 +0000 http://www.thetrephine.com/?p=7#comment-350 I hope you don't mind...I'm going to be reading here for a bit. Starting the process of this myself and a friend sent me here. Gah, I could write this post myself. Although not as eloquently. :) I hope you don’t mind…I’m going to be reading here for a bit. Starting the process of this myself and a friend sent me here. Gah, I could write this post myself. Although not as eloquently. :)

]]> By: Catalina http://www.thetrephine.com/2009/10/04/if-you-used-to-read-my-old-blog-this-post-is-for-you/comment-page-1/#comment-122 Catalina Mon, 02 Nov 2009 17:45:18 +0000 http://www.thetrephine.com/?p=7#comment-122 This post was just beautiful. I have archives of your old blog on my Blackberry and I read them frequently hoping that one day you'd return. It's the understatement of the year for me to say I'm happy that you're back. *happy dance* This post was just beautiful.
I have archives of your old blog on my Blackberry and I read them frequently hoping that one day you’d return.

It’s the understatement of the year for me to say I’m happy that you’re back.

*happy dance*

]]> By: Keri http://www.thetrephine.com/2009/10/04/if-you-used-to-read-my-old-blog-this-post-is-for-you/comment-page-1/#comment-96 Keri Thu, 29 Oct 2009 22:16:35 +0000 http://www.thetrephine.com/?p=7#comment-96 It's funny that you reference unicorns in your About page, because finding your new blog was not unlike stumbling across a unicorn in the forest - I always hoped that it existed and I wished really hard for it, and then one day it magically appeared in front of me. Your writing is so sincere, touching, and clever. I am so glad you're back (even if it turns out to be fleeting, as unicorn sightings sometimes are). It’s funny that you reference unicorns in your About page, because finding your new blog was not unlike stumbling across a unicorn in the forest – I always hoped that it existed and I wished really hard for it, and then one day it magically appeared in front of me.
Your writing is so sincere, touching, and clever. I am so glad you’re back (even if it turns out to be fleeting, as unicorn sightings sometimes are).

]]> By: Misha http://www.thetrephine.com/2009/10/04/if-you-used-to-read-my-old-blog-this-post-is-for-you/comment-page-1/#comment-86 Misha Wed, 28 Oct 2009 13:16:39 +0000 http://www.thetrephine.com/?p=7#comment-86 Thanks so much for this. My husband and I just separated and I moved out. This post made me cry at work, but gave me hope that one day I'll smile again. Thanks so much for this. My husband and I just separated and I moved out. This post made me cry at work, but gave me hope that one day I’ll smile again.

]]> By: Hänni http://www.thetrephine.com/2009/10/04/if-you-used-to-read-my-old-blog-this-post-is-for-you/comment-page-1/#comment-79 Hänni Tue, 27 Oct 2009 21:34:36 +0000 http://www.thetrephine.com/?p=7#comment-79 Hello I'm a new reader, sent here by Kerri Anne. First off, you are a really great writer. Second, thank you for being so open and honest about your divorce--50% of us married folks have been there, but we don't talk about it much. I also took a hiatus from blogging that started just before my marriage broke up. Like you, I didn't see it coming, but maybe I knew it in my guts. Anyway, things are much better now on the other side, and hey, if nothing else at least I have stories. I am *not* friendly with my ex at all, and feel free to gently skewer him online from time to time ;) Hello I’m a new reader, sent here by Kerri Anne. First off, you are a really great writer. Second, thank you for being so open and honest about your divorce–50% of us married folks have been there, but we don’t talk about it much. I also took a hiatus from blogging that started just before my marriage broke up. Like you, I didn’t see it coming, but maybe I knew it in my guts. Anyway, things are much better now on the other side, and hey, if nothing else at least I have stories. I am *not* friendly with my ex at all, and feel free to gently skewer him online from time to time ;)

]]> By: Jill - GlossyVeneer http://www.thetrephine.com/2009/10/04/if-you-used-to-read-my-old-blog-this-post-is-for-you/comment-page-1/#comment-74 Jill - GlossyVeneer Tue, 27 Oct 2009 21:12:43 +0000 http://www.thetrephine.com/?p=7#comment-74 Welcome back to blogging. Honestly, I can't imagine why people would probe and feel entitled to know "What Happened?" when hearing of divorce. My parents got a divorce this year after 35 years of marriage and there are times that I know a little less of the "what happened" because I don't need that burden sitting with me all the time. Anyway... I am glad you are back to blogging because you are such a talented writer. Welcome back to blogging.

Honestly, I can’t imagine why people would probe and feel entitled to know “What Happened?” when hearing of divorce. My parents got a divorce this year after 35 years of marriage and there are times that I know a little less of the “what happened” because I don’t need that burden sitting with me all the time.

Anyway… I am glad you are back to blogging because you are such a talented writer.

]]> By: Teej http://www.thetrephine.com/2009/10/04/if-you-used-to-read-my-old-blog-this-post-is-for-you/comment-page-1/#comment-57 Teej Mon, 26 Oct 2009 16:53:18 +0000 http://www.thetrephine.com/?p=7#comment-57 Good gracious, I missed you. Welcome to this new thing. Good gracious, I missed you. Welcome to this new thing.

]]> By: elise http://www.thetrephine.com/2009/10/04/if-you-used-to-read-my-old-blog-this-post-is-for-you/comment-page-1/#comment-53 elise Wed, 21 Oct 2009 20:12:31 +0000 http://www.thetrephine.com/?p=7#comment-53 I was smack in the middle of yoga school when I got the (exciting!) email alerting me to the presence of this site. So it has taken me until just today to actually VISIT the site... And WOW, you have had an insane year. Thank you for sharing it with us. And I bet every other commenter is on this theme but congratulations for making it through a supremely difficult and trying time and coming out on the other side wiser, relatively unscathed (or maybe you just wear the scathings well) and as funny as ever. Glad to have you back! You kick ass. I was smack in the middle of yoga school when I got the (exciting!) email alerting me to the presence of this site. So it has taken me until just today to actually VISIT the site…

And WOW, you have had an insane year. Thank you for sharing it with us. And I bet every other commenter is on this theme but congratulations for making it through a supremely difficult and trying time and coming out on the other side wiser, relatively unscathed (or maybe you just wear the scathings well) and as funny as ever.

Glad to have you back! You kick ass.

]]> By: Alias Mother http://www.thetrephine.com/2009/10/04/if-you-used-to-read-my-old-blog-this-post-is-for-you/comment-page-1/#comment-42 Alias Mother Sat, 10 Oct 2009 12:33:28 +0000 http://www.thetrephine.com/?p=7#comment-42 Welcome back. The internet missed you. I won't lurk this time. Welcome back. The internet missed you.

I won’t lurk this time.

]]> By: Bre http://www.thetrephine.com/2009/10/04/if-you-used-to-read-my-old-blog-this-post-is-for-you/comment-page-1/#comment-41 Bre Sat, 10 Oct 2009 03:37:50 +0000 http://www.thetrephine.com/?p=7#comment-41 Good to have you back. Looking forward to reading your blog again. And I'm sorry about your divorce. It sounds like you're in a good place now. Good to have you back. Looking forward to reading your blog again. And I’m sorry about your divorce. It sounds like you’re in a good place now.

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